Sitting in one of the temples of Khajuraho, looking at all the beautiful craftwork of the ancient times and talking to one of the best friends, I told him, what if there was a place for the parents to take their children for mating. I am sure it has shocked the Indian audience but don’t judge me before you read the whole thing.
To make the society sexually healthy, and neutralize the desperation for sex, why can’t we have specific places where we take our kids at a certain age, maybe from age 13 to 19, for them to experience sex in the safest way. We take our animals to such places where they mate, experience the opposite gender at just the right age and even reproduce. But we keep our kids devoid of this experience until they get married or bump into someone.
Let’s understand that many youngsters meet wrong individuals who are with them for their own mean reasons. Sex can even be a trap for the youngsters who are later lured into nasty activities like drugs and alcohol. Also, sex, many a time, puts them into a sort of guilt, due to the narrow-mindedness of the society which considers it wrong. Thirdly, If done without a contraceptive, there is a fear of pregnancy. The fear of AIDS and other STDs prevails if the experience is accidental. And the part to understand is, sex is needed after a certain age and if not experienced, a person might end up feeling disgusted and depressed, especially when there is no bumping into the opposite gender. Also, one cannot end up marrying somebody just for sex.
So, the safest way is to ask one’s child, at the age of 13 or 14, if he/she feels excited about sex. If the answer is in affirmative, the teenager should be taken to a mating Institute where the parents look at the profiles of the people who are available for mating and off course check if the person is right for one’s child. The teenager too would have an option to pick an individual with the parent’s guidance. These profiles would be safe due to a strong background check and all the medical tests done. This would lead to lesser or no rapes as the youngsters would grow sexually and thus mentally healthy, sex would take a back seat and people would also grow spiritually as the sexual needs would subside at an early age.