The way you are born and the way you behave can directly be linked to the way you lived your previous life and the way you died. The one who died satisfied, did not have pain or aggression in his final years would be born as fresh as a lemon. However, my research has continued on the people who have had indefinable pain right from the beginning. Their childhood started with illness, agony, diseases, depression, heart attacks, phobias, etc. and they felt they were in a turmoil of situations they never created. They even pleaded for death but they were supposed to live.
Many such people, during their past life regression, informed the therapist about how they were floundering during death in their previous life. One of the cases I got to know was of a man who feared darkness. He slept in light and had dreams of pain which he couldn’t express. As he got his past life regression done, the reality was excruciating. This man in his previous life was put alive in a dry well (by the king’s soldiers, for being notorious) for days until he died of fear, hunger, thirst and pain of being bitten by rats. His family supported him well in this life taking it as their responsibility to love him and help him. To everyone’s shock it was his family from previous life which felt helpless as they couldn’t do much to help him then. It was their guilt which brought them back to the gentleman (they called their son) to take care of him.
Another such incident where a woman who always felt that she has something wrong in her throat and she would have some serious illness in her throat, developed throat cancer after all. It’s not the law of attraction (stop following those documentaries blindly) which got her the disease. It takes a real strong incident to instill certain fears in our mind. During her past life regression, she was a soldier and her throat was pierced with a huge knife when she died with a lot of pain.
Certain fears people develop, certain situations people are in and many questions that remain unanswered come from the times we have forgotten. The point is to accept them as truth and work on ways to wash them off one’s mind. The mind won’t die and the body will and the memories would remain intact in the times they occurred, to happen again.